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specializing in helping couples

PUT the SPARK back into their marriage

@ The Love Relationshop

to support conscious quality people in defining,
co-creating,& then maintaining their

happily ever after plan"
for happier, healthier relationships filled with more play, love, and intimacy by learning to articulate their desires and take radical responsibility for their reactions & responses!


​Your relationships are a reflection of YOU. So what does your most intimate relationship say about YOU?

Yikes!  Are you showing up in your marriage in the ways you intended when you said "I DO"?!

IONSHIP in your life?
[Wait. How can I say your marriage is your MOST important relationship?] *see answer below*

Now you might be wondering if you can improve your marriage even if your partner
isn't willing to go to therapy or coaching with you?  YES!  Studies show that although it's better for you both to participate, one person in the relationship CAN make changes that can either help or hurt the marriage.
hink about it.  If 50% of the relationship is changing, don't you think it'll cause a shift?  More often that not, the resistant one sees the effort being made by their sweetheart and feels compelled to also "do something". 

Remember, your partner is hurting, too. :'(

Where do you start?  The Love Relationshop specializes in helping couples get the SPARK back into their relationships through our education, coaching, support, community, and date activity events for spouses to grow together! 
NOTE: Our signature program, DATE YOUR SOLE MATE includes all mentioned above
but you can also opt for just coaching packages for one or both of you.


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  • private coaching [one-to-one]

  • private couples coaching package [one-to-two & one-to-one]

  • group coaching for couples [one-to-many]


This option is for 1 person.

[currently only taking

married clients].

[combination of:
one-to-two & one-to-

Couple gets to choose what format they want: all sessions all together or a combination of some together and some separate.

[The latter is recommended.]

[one-many combination:
just men, just women,
and ​
all together]

1st week-everyone

2nd week-just men

3rd week- just women

  • in person

  • online*/phone*

  • 12 months*

  • 6 months

  • one payment* [save money]

  • monthly payments

OPTIONS--pick one from each category:

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*most cost & time effective choices.

To make the most gain, a 12 month contract is recommended.  Afterall, you got where you are over years [or possibly even decades]

so it takes awhile to unravel old habits, then learn and practice new intrapersonal AND interpersonal communication skills.  By choosing a 12 month package, you'll actually be paying less per month than if you did a 6 month contract.  We do that to acknowledge and support you in your commitment to change...and to show you that we're here for YOU.  We have your back.  You will also get a price break by paying for the full contract all at once because it cuts down our admin time by 92% and a discount by using cash since it cuts out about 5% in fees! 

Private in-person coaching is an option but is most expensive package and is limited to the Tampa/St. Pete area in Florida. 

This option is well over triple the private online/phone option as it adds more time and expenses like fuel to the total cost.

The Love Relationshop is where relationships meet workshops

Coaching by Erica 

Educator, coach, mentor, and leader with 35+ years culminated experience &

a Master's Degree in Teaching & Learning, Erica believes in being able to change your circumstances through LOVE, EDUCATION, ACTION, and FUN.


Erica started creating THE LOVE RELATIONSHOP to host fun, interactive AND educational events so PEOPLE can learn how to get the life/love they desire annnnnd have fun doing so . . .  thus creating WIN WIN WIN situations!


After working with singles for over 10 years, it was on her heart and mind to provide a resource for married couples so they could learn how to co-create happier, healthier relationships and therefore want to stay in their fulfilling and satisfying marriages--- not just wait out a life sentence because they don't believe in divorce!  Hence "DATE YOUR SOLE MATE --keep dating your spouse" was born! Divorce or a mediocre marriage are not the only two options!

Now COACHING FOR COUPLES is being added a la cart

to help couples get the SPARK back in their marriage!


Join us to UPLEVEL YOUR LOVE and we'll have FUN "doing the work" together 

so YOUR relationships can SIZZLE instead of FIZZLE!!

Your marriage is a reflection of YOU...your habits & priorities.
What does the state of your marriage say about you?
What does it say about your spouse?
We. Can. Help.             

You are not alone! DID YOU KNOW THAT:

  • the average U.S. marriage only lasts 8 years?!

  • 61% of lonely people are MARRIED?!

  • the #1 reason for divorce [75%!] is "lack of commitment"?!

  • 83% of couples ae DISCONTENT in their marriages?!

  • first marriages have a 40-50% divorce rate, 2nd marriages have a 60-70% divorce rate, and 3rd marriages have a  73% divorce rate?!


*Why your marriage is the MOST IMPORTANT relationship:

  • A marriage is the most important relationship as it forms the core partnership that influences every aspect of one's life [finances, living style, sex life, romance, vacations, retirement, parenting, friendships, education, ...the list goes on and on and on]. It can provide emotional support, companionship, and a sense of security, creating a foundation for personal growth and well-being.  Furthermore, a strong marriage can foster an environment where personal and shared goals can be pursued collaboratively. It enhances communication skills, promotes mutual understanding, and encourages the continuous evolution of the relationship. Ultimately, a flourishing marriage acts as a source of resilience during life's challenges, offering a profound connection that goes beyond companionship, enriching the journey of both individuals.


  • The bond between spouses not only contributes to individual happiness but also sets the tone for a stable and thriving family, impacting the overall quality of life for both partners, the children, and of the family as a whole [often times extending to extended family as well]!  A marriage is the cornerstone of a family, serving as the foundation for a stable and nurturing environment. It lays the groundwork for a healthy, supportive partnership that positively influences the overall well-being of both spouses [and children] and sets an example for children on the dynamics of love, communication, and commitment.


  • Prioritizing and nurturing the marital relationship creates a strong and resilient family unit, fostering an atmosphere where children can thrive emotionally and learn essential life skills from their parents' example.  A robust marital relationship provides a stable and secure emotional environment, allowing children to feel a sense of safety and predictability. The partnership between spouses serves as a model for healthy interpersonal connections, teaching children valuable lessons about respect, empathy, and cooperation. By investing in the strength of the marriage, parents contribute to the overall resilience of the family unit, creating a solid foundation that positively impacts the emotional, social, and psychological development of each family member.


  • Moreover, a robust marital relationship not only enhances the well-being of the couple but radiates positive effects throughout the broader community. By prioritizing and nurturing this primary connection, individuals contribute to a healthier society, as stable families often become the building blocks of stronger, more interconnected communities. In essence, the importance of marriage extends beyond the couple, influencing the fabric of social relationships and the collective strength of the broader human experience.

Co-Create Happier, Healthier Relationships!

​Relationships are a reflection of what do your relationships say about YOU?  You are the common denominator.  Since it all starts and ends with YOU, look for common characteristics and +/-  feelings in your different relationships ...and that's what you start working on first. Where are the feelings of DISCOMFORT, UNEASE, and TRIGGERS? 

Someone else is NOT responsible for activating YOUR trigger[s] While it is optimal to have someone who cares enough to be EXTRA careful around your sensitive topics/situations, the key is FOR YOU to eliminate your trigger by WORKING THROUGH  IT.  Many people have been taught to "ignore, push away, shove down" those feelings...or that it is someone else's fault for getting triggered. We can do better annnnnnnd in a way that respects everyone around you [including yourself and your feelings which helps you learn to self-regulate] by taking radical responsibility for our own responses AND reactions. Not doing this can lead to disease, sickness, and  feelings of loneliness, frustration, anger, and isolation. Working through it brings the opposite: peace, calm, improved health, love, acceptance, etc.


1. Add knowledge & support [coaching, therapy, books, workshops, classes, programs]
2. Process your thoughts and feelings through talk, thought, and jot [journaling].
3. Then practice your new communication skills, tools, AND strategies by taking radical responsibility for your reactions and responses. 

WE CAN HELP!  For optimal GROWTH, use as many resources as you can to gain different perspectives: coaches, therapists, books, workshops, classes, etc. but don't feel like you have to do it all ...all at once. Growth takes time and consistent effort.

REMEMBER: It doesn't matter how much you learn IF you don't PRACTICE AND USE healthy relationship and communication skills in real life. Don't be afraid of making mistakes.  The biggest mistake is leading an unfulfilling and unsatisfying life because you were afraid of looking inside at the FEELINGS and feeeeeel them.  The result of "doing the work': become an even better version of yourself and you feeeeeeel goooooood!! Ahhhh

Do you want MORE in your marriage?  Here's what other couples are saying they want more.
Which ones resonate with you?

  • connection

  • love

  • playfulness

  • intimacy

  • hot sex

  • affection

  • quality time

  • better communication

  • fun

  • massages

  • laughter

  • support

Happy Couple
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